There was a time I thought sexual purity was just a church thing.
Something pastors preached about, not something people really lived.
Until I met myself in a quiet season,
the season where God started asking me, “Who owns your body?”
I won’t lie, i know it is not easy.
It’s not easy to say no in a world that celebrates anything goes.
It’s not easy to stay grounded when your flesh screams and your emotions rise.
But somewhere in my journey, I discovered this,
purity isn’t about shame, it’s about strength.
It’s not about saying “I’m better,”
it’s about saying “I belong to God.”
I’ve had moments I wanted to give in.
Moments I questioned, “Does it really matter?”
But every time, I hear that still, gentle whisper:
“Your body is Mine, and your worth is not up for debate.”
So I chose purity, not because it’s popular,
but because peace lives there.
Because purpose breathes there.
Because I want to look back and know I honoured God, even when no one was watching.
If you’ve fallen before, please rise.
God doesn’t cancel you; He calls you closer.
Purity is not perfection, it’s direction.
And every step back to Him still counts.
“Blessed are the pure in heart, for they shall see God.” Matthew 5:8
Keep standing. Keep shining.
You’re not weird, you’re chosen.
Happy World Sexual Purity Day
Temilade Alokan
Light Lamp
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