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HIDDEN INTENTION


For how long will you keep falling into the same pit?.

“You are tired of guys and their tricks. It seems right at first but the ending is nothing to write about. Guys and their ways of getting things for their benefits is amazing and funny. Do not get me wrong, I don't mean all guys but there are some that are tarnishing the image of innocent guys. Who am i  to judge?”. Bola said, as she was discussing with her friend about her experience with guys.

It all started on social media.  He was discussing some things with me and I felt it was important and needed to be dealt with. So I gave him my number with the aim of helping out, not quite long he messaged me and I was eager to reply him, to hear more of what he has to say.

After a long time of chat, I discover he was a Christian and he was struggling with something, as he needed my help. I gave him my advice and I noticed he was not ready to comply with them, instead he was asking me to help him to satisfy his Sexual Urge through a video call. “What a lustful and deadly act” I shouted as I became angry, but still I did not give up on him because my intention was to be of help.

His call entered but I declined it because I would not participate in such, as I have told him. He kept pleading but I refused, I told him “My body is the temple of God and I cannot do anything  impure with it.” “I would not let my helpful state deprive me of my worth!” I told myself. After he saw I did not agree with him, he told me to block him but guess what? I already decided I would do that and I was wondering how many ladies would have fallen victims.

Ladies, you need to be highly sensitive. Most of the guys out there has hidden intention and agenda. Do not lose yourself, your worth because you are helping him. Do not be a tool for pleasing their urges.

Funny enough, they would make it look as if you are against them but please, do not do it because you are trying to judge them wrong.

They might come so plain to you and paint a beautiful picture about themselves but still be patient and be sensitive to every words. If they can not agree with your terms, do not force yourself to agree with them. No matter what, keep to your words and do not pity them. Stand on your words and will.

This is one of the ways ladies are being launched into something they did not plan for and they keep struggling with them. As a lady, you need to discern every words.

Do not judge by the physical appearance, not every cool appearance is cool. Remember Samson, Jezebel appeared beautiful and lovable to him without knowing the hidden intentions. Do be too quick to decide.

Be sensitive and if you notice anything that would make you go against your will, please decline! Do not think about it, so as not to fall victim. You might not know their intentions at first but as you continue with them, gradually you would know. If you are sensitive.

Yours might not be through chats or video call, but anything it might be, do not lose yourself.

*DO NOT BE A TOOL OF PLEASING THEIR DESIRE.* God bless you and I love you.
      Alokan Temilade Victoria.*HIDDEN INTENTION*

For how long will you keep falling into the same pit?.

“You are tired of guys and their tricks. It seems right at first but the ending is nothing to write about. Guys and their ways of getting things for their benefits is amazing and funny. Do not get me wrong, I don't mean all guys but there are some that are tarnishing the image of innocent guys. Who am i  to judge?”. Bola said, as she was discussing with her friend about her experience with guys.

It all started on social media.  He was discussing some things with me and I felt it was important and needed to be dealt with. So I gave him my number with the aim of helping out, not quite long he messaged me and I was eager to reply him, to hear more of what he has to say.

After a long time of chat, I discover he was a Christian and he was struggling with something, as he needed my help. I gave him my advice and I noticed he was not ready to comply with them, instead he was asking me to help him to satisfy his Sexual Urge through a video call. “What a lustful and deadly act” I shouted as I became angry, but still I did not give up on him because my intention was to be of help.

His call entered but I declined it because I would not participate in such, as I have told him. He kept pleading but I refused, I told him “My body is the temple of God and I cannot do anything  impure with it.” “I would not let my helpful state deprive me of my worth!” I told myself. After he saw I did not agree with him, he told me to block him but guess what? I already decided I would do that and I was wondering how many ladies would have fallen victims.

Ladies, you need to be highly sensitive. Most of the guys out there has hidden intention and agenda. Do not lose yourself, your worth because you are helping him. Do not be a tool for pleasing their urges.

Funny enough, they would make it look as if you are against them but please, do not do it because you are trying to judge them wrong.

They might come so plain to you and paint a beautiful picture about themselves but still be patient and be sensitive to every words. If they can not agree with your terms, do not force yourself to agree with them. No matter what, keep to your words and do not pity them. Stand on your words and will.

This is one of the ways ladies are being launched into something they did not plan for and they keep struggling with them. As a lady, you need to discern every words.

Do not judge by the physical appearance, not every cool appearance is cool. Remember Samson, Jezebel appeared beautiful and lovable to him without knowing the hidden intentions. Do be too quick to decide.

Be sensitive and if you notice anything that would make you go against your will, please decline! Do not think about it, so as not to fall victim. You might not know their intentions at first but as you continue with them, gradually you would know. If you are sensitive.

Yours might not be through chats or video call, but anything it might be, do not lose yourself.

*DO NOT BE A TOOL OF PLEASING THEIR DESIRE.* God bless you and I love you.

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