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WHO ARE YOU



Allow me ask this question, who are you? 
Ladies, who are you? 
Guys, who are you? 

A lot of people are living a bittered, depressed and sorrowful life because they don't know who they are. They imitate people(celebrities) lifestyle but they cannot meet up their standards and so, they become angry and depressed. 
Who are you?

Some ladies live a fake luxurious lifestyle, they go up and down looking for maga's to give them the type of lifestyle they want. They want to travel out, ride a car, build gigantic houses and live big. So, they go in search of rich boyfriends, sleep with them, get their money and build the kind of castle they want, so that they can flaunt themselves on social media and have the millions of like while most of them, end up living with deadly disease. 
Who are you?

We don't even know the complexion of people anymore . A lot of people don't cherish their complexion, they are not comfortable in their own skin anymore and that is why they bleach. Who told you, you can't be dark, brown, fine and fresh?  God who created you that way, knows everything about you. 

We see people living a fake life. They want to be like someone else. They copy people's lifestyle and then, tag them so as to make themselves happy while deeply within them, they know they are lieing. They live on borrowed money, borrowed cloths, borrowed house, borrowed wigs, borrowed name, borrowed colours, borrowed account, etc.
Who are you? Whatever that doesn't belong to you, not just money is borrowed. 

This implies mostly to the ladies, you attach yourself so much to people, just to be influential and you end up being cheap to them... Who are you? 

You need to sit down and think about your life. For how long are you going to continue living such life? What have people learnt from you? What values have such life added to you?  Are you deeply happy? Common, you can't be living a copied, fake lifestyle and be happy. Just because someone is living the life you desire, does not mean you get angry at yourself and try to imitate them. 

Everyone has a time and season, they were like you before they made it. There is no quick way or short cut, you have to wait!  Everyone is going to be who they are, if they wait, trust, obey and depend on God. Remember He is the way, he has added so much value in you, you need to know that you are valuable! You are precious! You are loved! 

Why don't you love yourself and embrace who you are. Don't rush yourself by living a fake life and don't harm yourself, because you would end up being bittered, depressed and angry. Yes, you have a purpose. Don't live to please others. Let love lead. The greatest commandment in the Bible is Love. 

Love yourself first then, work towards being a better version of yourself by depending, waiting, obeying, trusting and living on God's words and instructions. In such way, you would know the values to yourself. 

I love you. Yes! You
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Brainiac Williams said…
This is well versed. Well scripted. Well analyzed. And well thought out.
I'm inspired and motivated.

Keep on the good work, Temi.


With love �� from, Uyo.
Brainiac
15 December 2019 at 11:19
Light lamp said…
Thank you Brainiac

God bless you!
21 March 2021 at 12:55
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