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JUST A LITTLE TASTE

This is not the usual writing. I advise you dear sisters to read till the end.

Some people find themselves in an unpleasant and dirty act just because of a little taste. Just a little taste...

"What do you think? Do you think it's my fault I am like this? Moreover, what you are celebrating is a old version thing. Nobody cares, we are in a modernized world and you are taking it so far. Aren't you ashamed of yourself?

Infact, most believers don't get it right in marriage while some of these people who have done more than half of the things you have not done, are living fine. 

You better wise up and step up unless, you will be left behind in this life. Moreover, tell me where it is written in the bible that you should not kiss. All of these things you are saying are fallacy....I could remember vividly these were the words Sandra said to me that Night" Wendy said as she was explaining to Lucy.

"What then happened after? Lucy asked

"I bought the idea and it all started with just a little taste of constant hugging and pecking. I thought it was okay till we graduated to kissing and then touching. Then, I really wanted more. I thought I could do all of these because it wasn't really stated in the bible like Sandra said. I fell into it, I was enjoying every bit of it and it was difficult to go back.

I was exposed and I began to crave for more but along the line, I realized I wasn't feeling at peace. I thought I could do it all and be okay but deeply within me, I don't feel okay" Wendy said as she wiped the little tears in her eyes

"So, what changed your mind? Lucy asked

"I thought about my life. Nothing has been progressing. The people I used to be with, don't understand me anymore. I was drowning in sin and I couldn't speak out to anyone. I got into depression all because of impurity. I became a slave and was bonded. I prayed for redemption and finally, when I got my way out. I felt lifted and free" Wendy said as she smiled

My dear beloved sister, Sexual Purity is a command from God. Bible says in *your body is the temple of God* Also, *your marriage is honourable when the bed is undefiled* (Hebrews 13:4)

It's so bad to see some sisters, showing their cleavages and so on on social media without fear. You are priceless because you have been bought by the precious blood of the lamb. So, tell me should a priceless jewel be exposed anyhow? Only if, some sisters can understand this.

Let me say it clearly, Sexual Purity is not Old version and neither does it mean you are S.U. it's God's command for His children (You and I) to stay pure. *Ephesians 5:3* , *1thesselonians 4:3-5* 

Even in marriage, you stay pure with your husband, yourself and God

To the virgins,
Do not think virginity is outdated. It's a honor to yourself, family and God. 

To the Rebirth in Christ,
You are now a new being in Christ in as much as you have reconciled with Him. The past isn't who you are anymore. The present, is your new being. So, don't go back to what you used to do and think the grace of God should abide with you or God will understand that it is not easy. Do not use your past as a reason to revive the bubbles of sexual impurity.

Do not light the fire of impurity when you can't quench it. You think it's enough to kiss and romance until you find yourself in a situation you didn't plan to. Some will even says, we can stop it but what ends up the story? Do not start what you can't end. When God is searching for ladies in your generation. Can you be found?

Staying pure also works when you stay with the right group of people.

As we celebrate world sexual Purity Day. Let's always remember, purity begins from your mind. Whatsoever a man thinketh in his heart, so it is. What do you think about sexual Purity? And that's what you will build yourself on.

 *HAPPY WORLD SEXUAL PURITY DAY!* 

 *Alokan Temilade Victoria* 

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