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MY STRUGGLE


BATTLE 50
*IS IT A CRIME?*

"What have I done wrong,
Why do I keep getting heartbreaks,
You know what Sandra,
I'm done with relationship
I'm done with any guy fooling me and thinking,
He is more better than me.
I'm just going to sit here and
Enjoy my singlehood" Olaide said as she wipe off her tears with the back of her hands

"You know I have been saying it all these while,
It's not a crime to be single,
The thing is that you haven't healed the previous wound before having another one now
Then you will assume love isn't meant for you,
Meanwhile you are the one abusing it
There's nothing bad about being single and giving yourself time
It's just a phase and it will pass" Sandra said 

Single ladies,
Be happy for everyone and yourself,
Singles are sometimes blessed because life's not so messed.
Everything has a lesson
Embrace it for some reason.

Don't be mad and sad,
Single life is somewhat not that bad,
Be very happy because life is always so lovely and it doesn't mean you are lonely.
There are times we can't hold on
Yes, a touch and a hug from someone can be a solution but, not for everyone.
There are times, you feel you need to be alone even when you are in a relationship
So, love your single life

Dear sister
Stop worrying and overthinking because you feel you are alone and lonely
Single life is exciting, full of fun, adventure, and a learning stage.

Being single is not a hell
People may or will tell a lot of things
Just to make them know you are happy with where you are and it's not going remain the same forever

So, celebrate your "singlehood",
Be proud of your stronghold. After all, life is always beautiful
Regardless if you're single or not.
You are not going to remaining in that Singlehood forever.
So, train up yourself and be happy 


*Alokan Temilade Victoria*
*Light lamp*
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