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"Omo francisca, you need to see that guy, he is so good looking. Spiritually there, capital letter tongue speaking guy, intelligent and lot more" Ebube said

"All these qualifications for one person? His he Jesus Christ assistant or Holy spirit assistant" Francisca said as she laughed out 

"What do you mean? Can you ever be serious? Well, I doubt it. You can think of anything you want but it is what it is and that's period" Ebube said 

"Hmmm .I have told you many times, don't judge a book by the cover. There are many container with poor or expired content" Francisca said 

"You are just assuming things. Assumption kills. You have not seen this person before, I am the only one who has encountered him severally. Even very active on social media with inspirational content. So, I don't know what you are saying" Ebube said 

"Since you know all about him, let me ask, Are you the one living with him?
Do you know his attitude to his parents, siblings, friends?
What kind of life does he live after church, beyond social media? Can you answer these? Francisca asked as she became speechless.

"This is huge but true. I only see the container but can't have access to the content expect I get close to it" Ebube said as she sigh

Dear sisters,
It's okay to admire the zeal and passion of a brother but don't let that be the only drive for you to want to make him yours.

Many are managing their relationships because of this issues. Yes, you met him in church, he is a Christian but is that enough?
Do you have a close relationship with him?
Do you know what his attitude is like?
Sisters, look and watch before you leap.
I pray God will help us 

Alokan Temilade Victoria 
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