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LETTER TO THE DISABLE


My sincere writing goes to anyone tagged as  Disabled! but i want you to know that your disability is not you.

If you are strugging with loving yourself because of the deformation of your physical appearance, this is for you. Living with disability, should be an ability that enables you to see the world at a different angle. Many people would look at you with the suprise that, you do not have abilities to perform and to succeed. I understand you, it would be tough but, it should make you a better person.

You are who you are because, you have refused to see the difference in you amidst the crowd and for those who think that disability is through the physic, let me tell you something that being “Disable means that you are a person with full abilities but the society, regard you as a disable person simply because you are not like them, in terms of your physical appearance” that is the only difference.

Let me amaze you by saying, “Disability can be through the way of thinking, behaviour and mostly in a form of conducting yourself amongst others”. Being disabled can be in a form of being abusive to everyone around you or your loved ones. We hear news about a child, been raped and the offender has been realised from jail with no bail, this is a sign of a disabled society.

I wish people can stop seeing disabled through the physic alone. To everyone, being tagged as a Disabled! Your disability is not you. Your disability are those people who looked at you and say “Shame man or Woman” or who feel sorry for you. Your disability is being amidst the society that is Illiterate or refuse to see the importance of education. Your disability is to every corrupt being.

Let us free our mind from Disability. Let us be free from referring to one another as being Disable.

*YOUR DISABILITY IS NOT YOU, BUT THE PEOPLE!*

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