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MY WEAKNESS


Part 1

Sinice we are in the month of love, I decided to write this because I love you all. Stay with me and read carefully as we journey together. 

Omotolani and Omotayo has been in a serious relationship, for 3years. Omotayo is the head of the Bible study department and Omotolani is the head of the welfare department. Both of them are committed excos in the church and they take their responsibilities very serious. They are visionary and prayerful people. They are disciplier and mentor to many youths in the church because they are united.

Omotolani is always referred to other churches as the welfare cord if they have any program and Omotayo is always releasing the word with fresh fire which set the hearts of people on fire for God. When Omotayo asked Omotolani for a relationship, it took her months before she finally agreed. At first, Omotayo was set to give up because it took her forever to answer him but he felt he should wait more. After waiting for 3months, he got the reply he was expecting. 

Their relationship has been going fine, even through the ups and downs. They are still standing together but something happened one day that changed the orientation and purpose of the relationship. 
 
Who knows that the firgetic Omotayo was struggling from sexual urges. It comes whenever he is with a lady he loves. That very day it happened, it was after Valentine day.  He has been pleading Omotolani to come to his house but she refused and said its not right to come to his house alone, if there's nobody with them. It can lead to something unplanned for. When he saw that she wasn't responding to his request, he followed her home one day after Bible study. He said they have something to discuss on,  she persuaded him to allow them talk in church but he refused and said its something crucial and they have to discuss when they get home. She finally agreed as they went home together. 

When they got home,  she prepared something for them to eat before they started the discussion.  Omotayo hasn't started talking as he stared at Omotolani. 

"Why are you staring at me, I am getting scared o" She said as she adjusted. 

" You don't have to be scared and don't I have the right to look at you" he said as he moved closer to her. She shifted back and stood up as he pulled her back and kissed her. She tried pulling him away but his strength were not from this world anymore. He was unstoppable and he slept with her. 
"Why did you do this?  She asked as she wept. 

"I am sorry, I don't mean to do this. It's the devil, he used my weakness to set trap for me. It was not intention" he said as he was sweating.

"How do you expect me to feel now,  in front of everyone and you. The foundation of this relationship is broken,  we cannot go on again " she said and wept

"No, I love you and we can still go on. We will just ask God for mercy and pray for forgiveness of sins. Please keep my secret and help me." he said. 

"It's easy for you to say when my dignity has been robbed. Please, get out of my house, I don't want to see you anymore " she said as she stood up and opened the door for him to leave. After he left,  she wept till she couldn't find tears anymore. 

For a month, she stayed on her own as she seek God's face for mercy and intervention before she could forgive him and decide to join him in prayers as he explained everything to her but after a week, the bed of sexual immorality was set again. Omotolani couldn't continue any more as she broke up with him because he was not ready to help his weakness and it was depriving her of a lot she ought to attain. He begged and waited for her to come back but her mind was already prepared to leave so, she refused as she moved on with her life. 

Everyone in the church kept wondering what happened especially their spiritual son and daughter. Also the pastor but they couldn't tell anyone what happened. She only said its best they stay apart for now. Few months later, Omotayo got a promotion and was transferred to their church in Lagos as the youth pastor. 

Before I move on to Part 2,
Do you think what Omotolani did was wrong???  If yes,  what could she have done. 

Part two would be posted tomorrow. Stay connected.

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Alokan Temilade Victoria..
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