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WHAT WILL PEOPLE SAY



"Tola, I don't think things can be like that? Do you know what people will be saying about me. Some will even say, I have given up on the assignment given to me. Some are even waiting to see the end result but how will I show that, I haven't stopped and just passing through some challenges and need a quiet time" Bibi said as she was seriously worried.

"I sincerely don't understand you. Whose approval are you waiting for? If you keep waiting for the praises of men, you will keep pushing and trying to make things right and at the end of the day get choked up. Why care so much about what people will say? You don't need explanation on why to take a break. You can't just keep going without a break except you want to break down and taking a break doesn't mean you have backslided. How do you expect to deliver when you aren't in a good position, it shows you are an HYPOCRITE. Not everyone will understand your break season and that's life for you" Tola said in an assuring voice

Dear sisters,
The assignment, the purpose God has given you doesn't mean you can't take a break to Retreat. You need time to refill yourself.

Many are scared of going on a long break because they think people will say they have backslided meanwhile your break time might be for your personal reasons.

Please, don't not hide under the umbrella of what will people think. Nobody understands your assignment better other than you. God hasn't called the people with you when given you that assignment. He gave you and only you know when the take BREAK and not the people. It's okay for people to show care by asking you what's happening with you? But never take your break period as a thought that you have backslided.

Every vessel needs an infilling to be able to be of service to the people. Don't deny yourself because of what will people say...

Alokan Temilade Victoria
*Light Lamp**WHAT WILL PEOPLE SAY?*

"Tola, I don't think things can be like that? Do you know what people will be saying about me. Some will even say, I have given up on the assignment given to me. Some are even waiting to see the end result but how will I show that, I haven't stopped and just passing through some challenges and need a quiet time" Bibi said as she was seriously worried.

"I sincerely don't understand you. Whose approval are you waiting for? If you keep waiting for the praises of men, you will keep pushing and trying to make things right and at the end of the day get choked up. Why care so much about what people will say? You don't need explanation on why to take a break. You can't just keep going without a break except you want to break down and taking a break doesn't mean you have backslided. How do you expect to deliver when you aren't in a good position, it shows you are an HYPOCRITE. Not everyone will understand your break season and that's life for you" Tola said in an assuring voice

Dear sisters,
The assignment, the purpose God has given you doesn't mean you can't take a break to Retreat. You need time to refill yourself.

Many are scared of going on a long break because they think people will say they have backslided meanwhile your break time might be for your personal reasons.

Please, don't not hide under the umbrella of what will people think. Nobody understands your assignment better other than you. God hasn't called the people with you when given you that assignment. He gave you and only you know when the take BREAK and not the people. It's okay for people to show care by asking you what's happening with you? But never take your break period as a thought that you have backslided.

Every vessel needs an infilling to be able to be of service to the people. Don't deny yourself because of what will people say...
Happy new month 

Alokan Temilade Victoria
*Light Lamp*
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