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LIFE CHOICES


"Why did I even decide to change the course of my life?
I was impatient and naive that I let people take advantage of me.
My life now is upside down and crashing down.
I thought I could find love and hold it, blindly I went for it
And tried to hold on to someone I thought felt the same
But only caused me heartache and pain.

I gave all that I had, my mind and body and soul.
For what, only to be told that I was not the one he wanted to hold?
That I was just someone he could needed at that point.
Went further to say he was ashamed to be seen with me.
You don't know what that has done to me.
How stupid am I that I cried

Then, I am reminded again of the choices I had made.
Those choices have changed my life completely.
I have done this to myself.
No one is to blame.
I thought if I ignored the pain,
The pain would go away and things would change.

I was wrong,
I do not feel the same.
For what was once love has turned to hate.
And now I must make my escape" Ifeoma said to her sister cord.

Dear Sisters,
Life choices has ways of changing lives,
Either good or bad but,
Don't let it be the drive of your life.

It's okay to learn from your mistakes,
And move on but,
Don't let it turn you to a bitter person 
Just because your 1st, 2nd and 3rd relationship, didn't work out.
Doesn't mean all men are the same 

Take time to heal genuinely,
Before entering the next ship.
Don't mistake someone being available as the right person 
Take your time and heal 

Be productive,
Engage in adding more value to yourself 
And see how everything will work out for good.

HAPPY NEW MONTH 

*Alokan Temilade Victoria*
*Light Lamp*
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