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*Please share this to every sister that needs to read this!! and let's read to the end, it's very important*

Many atimes,
You sincerely wish someone can reach out to your soul,
Without opening your mouth to tell them what exactly you going or you just passing through 

Most times,
You sincerely what to reach out to people but,
You have been disappointed countlessly and you don't even know who is the right person 

Sometimes,
You cry yourself out in the midnight 
Just because you keep making people see how strong you are during the day and can't hide the pain, shame, struggle at night,
You urgent need help and a turn around 
You hide them beneath your cloth and smile 

You have reached out to people via text,
Erased it again because you don't want to be a burden to them but you sincerely need help
You also don't want to ruin the relationship you have with them.

You have people that you have reached out to severally,
They don't even reply your message anymore because everything you message them,
You always need a favor or help from them
Yet you feel ashamed and downgraded 

You are that girl,
You have considered going into prostitution or something that you have not done before just to meet your needs but you just can't move on because that's not who you are, 
You just need to survive 
Your salary isn't doing enough,
You lost your job within the line,
You are really bothered on how to progress and move on because everyone in the family depends on you and you feel you are a failure 

You are that girl,
You dream, have great vision and plan but you feel limited because,
You don't have enough resources and strength to press on

You've prayed severally,
Hoping, holding unto and believing the testimonies of people about how God miraculously showed up for them but,
You have not experienced it,
Yet you trust God and it's beginning to look like prophecy are not believable anymore because you are tired of the same cycle,

What your mind keep saying is "I am tired,
Does God truly exist?
Why do I keep experiencing all these?
Should I just die, so that everything will end now."

Dear sisters,
A lot happen everyday,
You just need to find a way to scale through without contending to lose your faith and hope in God

If you need to shut yourself from social media please do,
To gain your sanity 
Social Media will only project what they want you to see,
Everyone has battle they are facing and they are hiding it,
So don't fall for what you see.

Fight for how to get a better job,
What to do to get better, become a value and be a help to people 
Don't ever give up trying new things that will yield positive changes
Hide yourself if possible but ensure you are taking chance to build yourself during that process.

Don't allow the devil use your situation to rob you off
Don't put your hope or faith in people you will be disappointed 
Pray to God and follow his instructions 

If you fall under this category, please join this group. ONLY FOR LADIES that are also ready to be committed, we have a lot to catch up with..

https://chat.whatsapp.com/KzquCb9nFYTCy2JUC4swGS

PLEASE, If you are a guy, don't join. God bless us🙏🏾

*Alokan Temilade Victoria*
*Light Lamp*

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