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WHAT DO I GET?


I always wish my name can be a representative of what people think about me but nothing like such, seems to be happening.

I love to be of help to everyone but I got to realize some people don't worth the sacrifice. Instead, they end up blaming and complaining about the little help I offered. Sometimes, I just wish I could stop but I don't feel at ease yet, I keep regretting my actions. People can't really be trusted.

Why can't people be satisfied?
Why do they request for what they can't give?
Why don't they appreciate the little effort I put together?
Why does it have to end in regrets? Can someone answer me, I am confused or "Am I not doing it in the right way?

To every LOVE,

I understand your heart and the fact that you cherish to be of help to people but I want you to know that no matter how you extend the hands of care to some people, they can't be satisfied.

They always request for more and make you think and regret why you helped them at first. To some, it's just in their gene not to be satisfied with whatsoever help they get. Either little or more, they always want more.

Some of those you helped, can't even do half of the things you did for them to another person yet they complain?

My dearest,
Please pardon them, if they have refused to say "Thank you" even after being helped.

Pardon them, if they don't appreciate your little effort

Pardon them, if they always complain that your help is too small.

Pardon them and also know that, "You can't always satisfy people, they will always find something to say now or later". So, continue doing your help and assistant with a plain heart with whosoever God has placed in your heart to help.

Also know that the rewarder of all, is God and He will surely reward you in due time. Just keep being you and do your best!

God bless you and I love you

*Alokan Temilade Victoria*
*Light Lamp*
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