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BOLA'S SYNDROME


"Temilade, please come, I want to see you" Bola said as  Temi moved closer to her

"You know I have a lot of things to do. So, let's do this snappy" Temilade said 

"Temilade, something is wrong with me. I don't get myself anymore" Bola said 

"I don't understand you anymore o. Just yesterday, we went to the clinic. Didn't you tell the doctor about your health? Temilade said as Bola laughed

"Oh...Temi, stop it. That's not what I am talking about? Just take a look at me, can't you guess what's wrong? Bola asked

"Bola, a lot of things can be wrong with you. You can help me by speaking out. That way, I can be of help to you" Temilade said

"Didn't you notice I haven't been balanced or fixed on a thing. I don't even understand my life, I just keep moving from one thing to another. I don't know what's best for me and none of them, is working for me" Bola said

"Bola should I be truthful, its because you haven't develop yourself in the place of fellowship with God. How often do you communicate with you?

What did you always talk about? How often are you sensitive to know when He speaks? Have you asked Him or when last did you ask, what next in the phase of your life? Or what He will want you to do? Temilade asked

"I don't know. All I do, is to pray to Him and whenever I perceive anything in my mind, I pray that he strengthen and lead me right. So, I just keep praying to Him, to help me" Bola said

"So, how many times have you been praying to Him, to help you ? Temilade asked

" That's one thing, I am confused about. I think the problem is me. I don't even know what I want to do. I think I am confused, I keep following others way. Jumping from one ministry to another. I don't understand myself anymore, I want to know MYSELF" Bola said as she was about to cry

"Bola...the solution to all these, is to know that which God wants from you. Pray to God, to open your understanding. To help you know what platform, he is sending you to. Also, get acquainted to the Word. It's the only place you can know more about yourself" Temilade said

Know where you fit! Just like a cloth, before sew to look fit. They will have to take your measurement, using the tape rule. 

So also, as a believer, your measurement should be in Christ through communication with God and His words. Then, God shall place you fit into that platform he has called you into and continue to guide and teach you daily.

Jesus is the perfect tailor, allow Him sew (teach, guide) and place you fit!

( *Psalm 32:8)* 

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God bless you and I love you!

 *Alokan Temilade Victoria*
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