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THORIA'S DIARY

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 *TEJUMOLA'S STORY*


I always have the consciousness that I must try all my possible best to make it. So that I can live the luxurious life I have pictured.


It has always been about making it in life and money,  ever since I started walking with Sogo and Ogooluwa. I got so interested in their expensive life and I always want to meet up.


I didn't know I have destroyed my life until I realized nothing pleases me than the expensive lifestyle. I joined the clique and we began to cruise the world even though we all know how we get our money.


I starved myself a lot just to fit in. I couldn't leave because I was enjoying the lifestyle and the standard of people I was meeting. So, I became interested to do more and reach up the standard. 


I began by lying to get money from my parents. I started double dating and graduated to using my body to get what I want. Everything went well, I was getting the money but I couldn't still meet up Sogo  and Ogooluwa standard. I confronted them to show me the way but they didn't. Instead they advised me to put in more effort and do what big girl does to get money.


I couldn't stop thinking about what they said and I have done everything but it wasn't like their own result. Yet, I have to keep upgrading because I can't go back to my previous lifestyle. I will look like a failure.


Hmmm....TEJUMOLA


You have been running the race of becoming. If you cannot meet up, don't bother joining the standard. If you cannot end the race, don't start. Don't start what you cannot finish...


Struggling and defiling yourself to meet up, shows how unwise you are. Just because everyone is doing it does not mean you should do it. Instead, the question to ask yourself is, Am i everyone? Why can't I be different?


You want the big and flamboyant life. Oh yes! You're so desperate and you can do anything to have it even if it comes with pain. As long as there is a gain, it worth it and you are ready to go for it.


The society is creating the system of beautiful, pretty slay queens with no understanding of who they are. It's only about what they have and living up the standard. 


This is a serious issue and it's a heart to heart matter as sisters. Please check and change your ways before it changes you.


You might have being lured into that lifestyle but you can still change. 

You might have being forced into that lifestyle but you can still walk away.

You must have gone deep into that path but you can still be restored to the right path.


Enough of selling yourself, lying, stealing, etc at the detriment of an expensive lifestyle. It's a lifestyle that when exposed to it, you have to keep updating and upgrading. If not, you will be mocked and ashamed of yourself. So, why do you want to go for it?


Save the unnecessary depression by loving your present and work towards a greater future. Don't run the race of becoming, it will shatter you.



 *Alokan Temilade Victoria*

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