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BUTTERFLY FEELINGS 5


"Oh...Please Odunayo, check yourself. Why do you like judging with confirmation? Sharon said as she slammed the door

"Look, Sharon you can't tell me how to live my life. I said I am not interested. Is there any problem with that or have you being bribed? Odunayo asked

"Odun, I sincerely don't know what has gotten over you but I want you to know you are the one doing yourself and that's why people like you are still single or don't stay long in a relationship" Sharon said hardly as Odunayo was shocked

"Yes, I have to tell you the truth because I want the best for you. You always complain that no one is interested in you because of those butterfly feelings you have that has made you proud. You judge every "Hi and Hello" from a guy and assume he wants a relationship with you even without hearing him out. 

You feel you are too fine and that's why every message you receive from a guy is a relationship matters. You do this everyday and it irritates me" Sharon said calmly as she moved closer to her

"So you want me to reply every message I get from a guy even the crazy and none crazy ones" Odunayo said soberly

"Babe, don't get me wrong. I am not saying you should reply everyone. Fine, I know you something's know the end of a chat by mere looking at the content and structure of the messages. I don't expect you to waste your time on some messages that the content is " Hello dear...You look sexy and sweet". It's a No for me but, there are some that all they want is to be friends and not necessary relationship. I know some can be quite annoying because all they send is only a particular structure of message "Hi, Hi and Hi"

Even you said, guys are not free to chat with you anyone. Have you checked yourself? Could it be because of your intention? I want you to think deeply, what comes or cross your mind when you see a guy's message? And How do you interpret the message?

Dear sisters,

Something you are the reason why guys aren't free to talk to you because of how you interpret their words and action.

Small chats with you, you are already assuming that he loves you and that's why he is chatting with you even when you know it's not right. 

I know you are trying to be careful but it should not be at the detriment of pushing everyone aside.

Please, let's work on ourselves and don't be too quick to judge. Then after, you will be asking why that guy isn't talking to you like he does with sister lagbaga. Instead, check yourself how do you respond to their chat and what are the thoughts going on in your mind when you reply.

Let's be guided. In as much as you want to play safe. Also safe guide your thoughts and emotions. Don't be too quick to assume without confirmation. Some will even go the extreme of feeling too pompous and happy. Like it's kind of competition.

Please, not every chat means the guy wants to woo you. Don't jump in conclusion before realizing the truth. Some have lost tangible relationship because of assumption...

I pray God help us in Jesus name...Amen!

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