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WHAT DO YOU THINK?


"I m tired of everyone putting the fault and pointing at the victims. What do you think about them ?

Several complains have been said to address the issues but nothing seems work because many of the voices have been killed but what do you think?

My name is Angel and as sweet as my name is, there is nothing angelic about my being. Every time, according to his time, I get oppressed by the so called person that claims to be my school teacher.

The journey started at the primary stage of the development of the great assets (breasts and glute region) that classify me as a lady but it turns out that the great assets lead to great abuse.

Every touch of his hands felt on my body led to severe pain for me as my assets were also increasing. Grandma kept wondered why my breasts were developing so fast but I was scared of speaking due to the pressure of threat that led to emotional discomfort and abuse from a person that happens to be my teacher a well respected one for that matter.

Who will i talk to and who will believe me. I was lost in the circle of meeting every closing hour as the people thought I was having extra lessons and anytime I couldn't meet up, it result to reduction in my grades.

The thought of having to fight for my deserved grades lead me to that point of speaking out. I took up the courage to approach my principal but what do you think? He was surprised and was asking for a proof even after showing him several marks of belt design but he thought it was my parents doing.

I didn't give up. I kept reporting to the principal because I couldn't watch my grandmother die of heart attack just because of me.

The abuse kept going on till my graduation day and I didn't know the principal took a step after complaining to him but what do you think? It was too late for me because I wanted to see him get arrested right in my presence.

Few days after leaving the school, they discovered another female victim who was caught in the act with him and then he was arrested. A part of me was happy but another part of me couldn't forget how he stole and abused my childhood days.

I couldn't trust anyone even my father, brothers, etc. When my grandma noticed my attitude, she has to summon my parents. I couldn't speak out to them because I didn't want them to blame the innocent grandma. A weeks later, I noticed some changes in my body especially my breast as whitish fluid were coming out of it and regular yellowish discharge from my vagina.

Getting to the hospital with my parents and grandma was when the whole scene was revealed to my parents after the doctor's report. Tear filled everyone face as they wondered the years I lived in bondage. The doctor prescribes some drugs to take to use for months to regulate my hormones but what do you think?

I am sure that so called teacher might continue in the same act after being released but in a different way. I was the victim and I had to nurse the pains" Angel said as she addressed the students as tears filled their faces

To everyone reading, what do you think?

I think this issue is being taken slightly and sometimes the victims are being blamed.  Many people in different places of the world are draining in silence especially after watching or hearing how this issue of abuse is addressed.

Please let's be sensitive to people around us because some people are living as walking ghost. Walk to and check up on people who you sense they are not doing fine. They might be going through abuse.

Not everyone doing fine, is doing fine. I pray God help us...Amen!

*Alokan Temilade Victoria*

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