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LIVE FOR YOURSELF


Sisterssss
Live beyond the media 
Don't build your life around it
It's called social media for a reason.
People get to decide what they want to project

It's crazy how you suffocate yourself,
Give yourself emotional trauma, stress, unnecessary heartbreaks 
Just because you want to be/act what you see
Forgetting that, they will only show what they want you to see.

Some of the people you see are dealing with things they choose not to show 
Some are living on borrowed hair, clothes 
Some are feeding on loans with/without good intentions 

It's okay to like, admire and love but don't force it,
If you can't match or meet up
Don't waste time sisters,
There's a lot to do..
Don't borrow to throw a loud party or things,
If you can't save to achieve what you want 

Yes, you will get the likes, love and looks but trust me 
You will pay the debt alone,
So why the unnecessary impression.

If your friends are the ones intimidating you,
Change your cycle and detach yourself from the pressure 
Life pressure is enough, don't add to it
Live to get Values
Live for growth 
Live for yourself 

Don't worry about those who look down on you,
Just keep working for growth because change is inevitable,
So don't be in an haste to do things you don't have the capacity for now 

Build yourself to match up and also have in excess.
There's a lot going on now and a lot to do than creating more stress on yourself sisters.
Live beyond impression!
Pursue things that matter

Always remember, I love you all

*Alokan Temilade Victoria*
*Light Lamp*
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