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THE JOURNEY OF LIFE

Episode 19 They knocked on the doctor's door and entered. “Good morning sirs” the doctor greeted. “Good morning sir” they replied and sat down. “The nurse said you requested to see us” Mr Apata said. “You must be Mr Apata and he is.. ” he said as he pointed to Mr Abu. “Yes I am and he is Mr Abu, a friend to the driver” he replied. “Oh okay, I guess I can discuss with the both of you” the doctor said. “Sure now” Mr Abu replied as Mr Apata kept smiling. “This Mr Abu is too forward. He too dey jump” Omega said and everyone in the class was laughing. “And Mr Apata who understood him, just kept smiling. Wise man” Kunle said and he went further “I guess it is part of the Ibos nature, they are too forward” he laughed. Omega stopped laughing and she said “What do you mean? Kunle, you are looking for trouble o” Omega said. “Hmm, who knows if the two of yo...

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Episode 18 Mrs Alabi did not close her as Tolani walked in quietly. Mrs Alabi did not notice when she entered, she was still praying with tears dropping from her face. “Mummy” Tolani shouted. Mrs Alabi turned her face and she was surprised to see Tolani in her room. “My love” She replied. Tolani could not talk or move as she was looking at her mum teary and swollen face. After a while, she shifted her gaze from her mum to the room. She looked round, she didn't see her dad. Immediately, the thought of daddy beating mummy, came to her mind. “Come closer dear” Mrs Alabi said as she was revived from her wonder land.  “Where is daddy? and Why are you crying? ” She asked to know if her thoughts were right. “Tolani, have you forgotten daddy travelled” Mrs Alabi replied. “Ooooohhhhhhh, yes. That's true but I thought he should be back” she said and still curious to know. “Yes, he is coming” Mrs Alabi re...

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Episode 17 The sound of Mrs Alabi hitting the table and praying,  woke Tolani. She looked at the time, it was 7:30am. “Ahhh, today is Sunday ” She  said as she tapped Ibukun to wake up. “What is going on? It's unusual to wake up late on Sunday's for God sake” She thoughts as she walked towards the sitting room. “What? Where is mummy and everybody? ” She asked but there was no response. Then, she realized she was the only one in the sitting room. She walked towards silver room to wake her. “Aunty silver ” she said as she knocked. “Who be that” Silver asked. “Arggghhh, aunty silver and her horrible language. I wonder why mummy like Cotonue girls” She mummured and replied “ It's Tolani”. “Aunty Tolani I no know”She said as she stood up to open the door. “Please, do not call me aunty, Tolani is okay” she said. Silver always find it difficult to communicate with Tolani a...

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Episode 16 “Kai this phone ehn, you keep embarrassing me. Even God knows I need a new one presently” he said as he was hitting the battery. After many trials to turn on the phone that refused to on, he dropped the phone in his pocket and he took a bike to the hospital. He arrived at the hospital but there was no phone to call someone in the hospital. He entered into the hospital and was walking straight to the reception when he heard his name. He stopped and look left and right but he couldn't find the person. As he was about to take a step, he had heard his name again. The voice sound familiar, he looked back and he saw someone waving and jumping. “Who is this again?he thought as he moved closer. “Ohhh, I don't know you are the one. What did the doctor say? He asked. “Hmmmm, we don't know yet o” Mr Apata said. He was part of those who brought Mr Alabi and the driver to the hospital. “It is well, we would wait to hear the doctor's report...

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Episode 15 He realized he had a wide and deep cut on his head as he could see blood flowing round, which could have affected his brain. “Jesus” Kunle said and Emeka kept crying . “We have to take them to the hospital ” Mr Abu said. They carried them into Mr Abu bus. “My people biko, I no fit go with you. I have to look into their bio data ” he said as one of them, volunteered to drive. He released the key and went to search his friend's bus. He searched and searched but he didn't find the book. He didn't give up, he kept searching till he found it. He looked into Mr Alabi details. Since his friend and Mr Alabi were the only survivers. '“Thank God, he dropped his wife number" he said as Mr Alabi identified in the note. He picked his phone to dial her number. Mrs Alabi could not sleep, she was waiting patiently for him to call. She was bothered and tried calling him, but he was not picking up. “Did something happened" she thought as th...

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Episode 13 The driver closed his eyes as he drove towards the men. Suddenly, all they could hear was “Gbaoh”. It was an accident, the bus tumbled and fell inside a hole. During the tumbling process,  some flew out of the window and Mr Alabi was among those that flew out. People who saw what happened, started wailing, shouting and crying. Mr Abu who was also a driver at the garage, noticed the expression on people's face as he was driving. He was trying to look for the reason for their expression. Immediately, the colour of the bus that had an accident,  caught his attention. He parked his bus and his passengers kept shouting, he ignored them and moved closer to the bus. “How did it happened ” he asked but nobody replied. He moved to the back of the bus, to check the plate number. Suddenly, he fell on the ground, rolling on the floor. Everyone diverted their attention to him, as they sensed he was related to the driver. “Who are you to him...

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Episode 12 Mr Alabi was in the bus going to Lagos and as they were about to leave, the driver passed a note asking them to fill their bio data. He started the car and drove pass the garage. Mr Alabi picked his phone to call his wife. He told her he was on his way home. “By this time, can't you sleep over” his wife replied. “You know I cannot trade couple service for anything, I have to be in church and I have to prepare for other things. Take care, bye” he said and quickly hanged the call. He did that to stop her from persuading him to stay. Getting to Ile-Ife, the driver started sleeping and everything became blurry to him. One of the passengers sitting at the front, noticed the movement of his head and shouted, the rest of them, was wondering what happened. “Baba, e ti sun(You are sleeping) ” she said and others, begged the driver not to sleep. The driver became speechless as he cleaned his face with his handkerchief. As he was driving, two guy...

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Episode 10 At exactly 6:30am, she went to her children's room to wake them up. She had packed their lunch and gather their school bags together. The only thing remaining was to bath and serve their breakfast. She had to go to David room twice before he could stand up from the bed. He staggered and greeted “Good morning ma”. “Good morning dear, how was your night rest? ” she asked. David who remembered what happened yesterday, faced down to reply her “fine ma”. “It's fine David, I understand you are ashamed and also, you feel remorsed but son, when a man falls, he rise up and make sure he stay away with the things that made him fall. Make sure you are satisfied with what ever you are given. Do not repeat such thing again” She said. He lifted up his face and he said “ I promise mum and he hugged her” she was glad as she hurried him to leave her and go to the bathroom. He jumped up from the bed to the bathroom, she smiled and...

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Episode 11 “I don't want to disturb you, that is why i didn't wake you up and your food is in the kitchen ” she said. “ I understand oko mi(my husband) ” mama said. “I am late and we would be leaving now. If you need anything, Silver is around for you ” She said as she walked towards the gate and everyone went to their separate destination. Two weeks later, something grievous happened to the family of Mr and Mrs Alabi. Mr Alabi decided he would be traveling to Ekiti State (his hometown) for his brother wedding. Everyone at home was ready to welcome the lagosian because he stay at Lagos. They always see people from Lagos as an extraordinary big people. He got home safely and the wedding was great. There was enough resources and money. Mr Alabi enjoyed himself, he called out his brother and informed him, he would love to go back home. His brother did not agree as he urge him to leave tomorrow morning but he was impatience and insisted to go back that...

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Episode 10 At exactly 6:30am, she went to her children's room to wake them up. She had packed their lunch and gather their school bags together. The only thing remaining was to bath and serve their breakfast. She had to go to David room twice before he could stand up from the bed. He staggered and greeted “Good morning ma”. “Good morning dear, how was your night rest? ” she asked. David who remembered what happened yesterday, faced down to reply her “fine ma”. “It's fine David, I understand you are ashamed and also, you feel remorsed but son, when a man falls, he rise up and make sure he stay away with the things that made him fall. Make sure you are satisfied with what ever you are given. Do not repeat such thing again” She said. He lifted up his face and he said “ I promise mum and he hugged her” she was glad as she hurried him to leave her and go to the bathroom. He jumped up from the bed to the bathroom, she smiled and...

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Episode 9 “You have to make him realize that you care and also love him. You have to apologize. Proverb 22:6 says, train up a child in the way he should go, that even when he is old, he won't depart from it. If you keep training him with beatings, there would be a time he would have to run away from us. I pray you see what I am saying and let's make things right” Mrs Alabi said to her husband. Mr Alabi totally disagree with her and he said “Proverb 23:13-14 says, do not withhold discipline from a child, If you strike him with a rod, he will not die. Striking him would save his soul.” “It would save his soul but not his mind. Remember, every thought begins from the mind and at his age, if the thoughts that fills his mind are bad and evil. It would definitely change his mindset and the Bible says we should study the word for the renewal of our mind. I suggest we spend time to equip him more with the word, pray for him and also use the rod when needed ...

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Episode 8 Tolani almost cried her eyes out, she loves her brother. David could not stop crying seeing the wounds all over his body. Mama took him to take care of him before Mr Alabi tell him to continue kneeling down. Mrs Alabi blamed herself for telling him. Ibukun was also not happy. She said to Tolani “let us go and sleep” and Tolani asked her “won't you go and greet daddy”. “Daddy ko, mummy ni” she said as she walked directly into her room. Tolani could not talk as she watched her sister, walking into her room. “Omo that girl is rude o. How old is she? ” Ifeanyi asked. Miss Abosede could not stop laughing as she replied “She is just 10years old o”. Everyone has gone to sleep except Mr Alabi and his wife. They were still in the sitting room, not talking as they stare at the television. Mrs Alabi stood up and he asked “Where are you going ”. “To sleep ” she replied. “won't you serve my food ...

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E pisode 7 “Ekaabo (welcome) Mrs Alabi greeted. He responded and he prostrated to greet mama. David who was kneeling down, stood up to greet and after, he knelt down. Mr Alabi sat on his favorite chair, looking stressed up. “Where is Tolani and Ibukun” he asked. Immediately Tolani heard that, she came out from her corner zone to greet him. “Welcome sir”. He responded and asked, “where is ibukun”. “She is sleeping ” she replied and went back to her spot. Mr Alabi faced his wife and asked “How was your day? ”. “It was fine and yours?” she replied faintly.  “It was great ” he said with a smile. Mama stylishly left the couples to discuss as she walked towards the kitchen. Mr Alabi followed her secretly, he had to apologize for what he did yesterday. Mama felt someone was following her and she turned to see the person. “Daddy Tolani, why are you following me? ” she asked with a scary...

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Episode 6 Tolani was at a corner crying and as mama was about to stand up to meet her, she ran to her room and lock the door. “What kind of life is this? What kind of family is this? Why is this happening. David is just 15 years old, how on earth could he steal. I am tired of all this. Daddy and mummy issues is there, I am trying to adjust my personality and now David. I want peace, enough of shouting, sound of beatens, pain, hatred, anger. I hate them all. She wept loud as she closed her book. Mama kept knocking but she did not respond till the opening of the sitting door got her attention. “Who is there” Mama asked and Mrs Alabi replied “It is me mama”. Mama moved towards the sitting room and Tolani opened the door to see her brother's face. David was already kneeling down as if he got the instruction to do that. “Who asked you to kneel down? This is not a matter of kneeling down” mama said. “When your daddy comes, we would talk abo...

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Episode 5 Ko ko ko, the sound that woke mama up. She got up from the bed to the sitting room and called Silver (the house help) to open the door.  “Mama since I have been knocking” Mrs Alabi said. “Ma binu omo mi(Do not be angry my child)” Mama pleaded and she said “Silver was in the back yard washing and I was also sleeping, I woke up at the sound of your knock. Moreover did you go to Tolani school because i can she her with you ” mama asked “Yes I did, I went to settle somethings” She said. “I thought she did something wrong ” mama said. “No o and please mama where is David and Ibukun? She asked. “Ehn ehn that reminds me David teacher came her and she said he did something bad” Mama said with a serious look. What did he do? She asked and Tolani who was doing something else stopped and faced them. David was caught stealing and he is in the principal office, they are waiting for you to come his school...

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Episode 4 “Is it a sin for her mom to come to her school” Kunle, the funniest student of Miss Abosede asked. “Well that because it was the first time her mum would come to her school when it's not a PTA meeting” Miss Abosede replied with a grin face. Mrs Alabi ignored her as she was looking at the girl beside her “Who is she” she asked. “She is my sit partner” Tolani replied. “Can this be true” the statement Mrs Alabi uttered. No one understood as Mrs Catherine, Tolani and Bimbo kept wondering what was going on. “What happened” the principal said but as she was about to answer, Tolani interrupted saying she want to escort Bimbo. Mrs Alabi drew Mrs Catherine hands in a manner that made her think she is a Physco patient. “I just saw Tolani with somebody” Mrs Alabi said. “Is anything wrong with that” the principal asked. “ Is she a lesbian” Kunle asked and everyone was curious t...

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Episode 3 It was another week in the city of Lagos, Ojodu Berger precisely. As usual mom and dad has gone to work, Tolani and her siblings are in school.  Grandma comes often and the house help get changed every year. Mama was not around to witness all those moments of beatings but thank God,  mama was around that evening it happened again. It was not only Mrs Alabi(Tolani's mum) that was beaten, mama was also included when she was trying to help her daughter. (Tolani's dad parents had died) What an abomination. Tolani and her siblings could not take it anymore as David ran to stop his dad from hitting his mum and mama. Ibukun went to bite him but Tolani stood back, she did not move from where she was standing. Mr Alabi(Tolani's dad) pushed David and Ibukun and he stopped beating. By the time Mrs Alabi would raise her head, her cheeks had swollen and everyone could not stop crying. Shortly,  Mr Alabi came inside, he prostrated and begged mama and his wife for what he ...

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Episode 2 Growing up was not fun for Tolani. The older she gets, the higher the challenges, struggles and pain she faced. She feel bad at times that she could not get to experience a lot of things many children of her age did because of her low self esteem. Sometimes, she was surrounded by opportunities but no boldness to step in. At age 13, she became a witness to seeing her mum being battered by her father. “Wow” one of Miss Bosede student said but she intentionallh ignored him and continued with her discussion. Tolani was affected emotionally, mentally, academically because of what she experienced at home. When her father saw her scores was reducing, he became angry because he does not joke with their studies but he failed to ask what happened?  and Why she scored less. Instead, he shouted and nag at her. Each time he does that, he create fear in their heart. David, the first born would always say “I hate dad” and the rest would join him in saying tha...

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Episode 1. “Wait, you think life is difficult, partial or you feel you are the only one facing mostly hardship, challenges, etc. No, you are not but there is surely a way out. Let me share with you all a life experience” Miss Bosede said. Tolani was born on the 21st of September, 2019 into the family of Mr and Mrs Alabi. She was born into a christain home. Tolani is the 2nd born out of four but mostly, she plays the role of the first born because of how are parent regarded her. She was 10 years old when she began to have issues with life. She grew up in a family where her parent had limited time for them, most especially her father. Her grandma and house help are always available to help mostly during the weeks. Mummy comes back late in the evening from work and still find her way to check their assignment if its done. Apart from the assignment, there are many things Tolani wanted to discuss with mum but there is no time. She pen down everything bothering her into a boo...