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THE JOURNEY OF LIFE

Episode 3

It was another week in the city of Lagos, Ojodu Berger precisely. As usual mom and dad has gone to work, Tolani and her siblings are in school.  Grandma comes often and the house help get changed every year. Mama was not around to witness all those moments of beatings but thank God,  mama was around that evening it happened again.

It was not only Mrs Alabi(Tolani's mum) that was beaten, mama was also included when she was trying to help her daughter. (Tolani's dad parents had died) What an abomination. Tolani and her siblings could not take it anymore as David ran to stop his dad from hitting his mum and mama. Ibukun went to bite him but Tolani stood back, she did not move from where she was standing. Mr Alabi(Tolani's dad) pushed David and Ibukun and he stopped beating.

By the time Mrs Alabi would raise her head, her cheeks had swollen and everyone could not stop crying. Shortly,  Mr Alabi came inside, he prostrated and begged mama and his wife for what he did. He said he was angry.  Everyone knows he has angry issues but it was getting worst everyday.  The next morning when Mrs Alabi was dressing up Tolani, she looked and said “Mummy what would you say happened to you ”. She smiled and said,“ I would lie I hit my face on the wall”.

Tolani held her tears as she does not want her to cry and She smiled back faintly. They all stepped out and wish each other good bye as they faced their direction. Getting to school,  her sit partner Bimbo noticed her and asked if everything was alright. She smiled and said “ I am perfectly good ”. After all the school activities, Bimbo asked if they could walk home together because their house is not far from each other and she said “Yes”

Tolani saw her mum and Mrs Catherine (the principal)  discussing as she and Bimbo was moving towards the school gate. “Mom,  what are you doing here” Tolani asked.

Stay connected as we journey together
       Alokan Temilade Victoria.

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