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DO NOT BLAME THE CHILD


 *PART TWO*

Hmm... I am sure everyone is thinking, who else is to be blamed? You do not understand what is going on with them because you are never in their position. Think about it, if you are in their position, who then is to be blamed? Who is to blame you? Answer these questions within you. Sometimes, we blame the wrong people and mostly the blame are on the subjects.

Adeola grew up with the mindset of not getting married. I know most people would blame her since its her mindset but have forgotten to check the reason behind such mindset. She hated her father and judged every other guys the same way. This mindset of hers was imbibed by the home she came from and what she experienced from her parent. Many other children are out there suffering from their wrong experience from homes and all we keep doing is blaming them and not providing a solution for them. Know the motives behind the reason.

Blame!... This has caused a lot of damage to the child because all they hear is accusation instead of a way to be set free from such motives. A child keep failing in school and what the parent can do is always to call the child a dullard and not seeking to know the reason behind his/her failure. This act has to be stopped. Even Jesus our role model gave an example of this in the Bible about the adulterous woman. He did not blame her, only if we can stop blaming the children and focus more to support and help them find a way out. 

I plead with everyone mothers, fathers, siblings, relatives... Etc. Let's stop blaming the children and let's start assisting, supporting, praying, advising and teaching the child to look beyond every bad experience they have learnt or see to become a better person and to go further in life 

Make sure you read PART ONE, it has been posted simultaneously. 
God bless us and I love you all!!! 
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