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DO NOT BLAME THE CHILD


 *PART ONE*

This is a situation that has been neglected, let's read through and reflect on them...God bless you! 

I say do not blame the child that refused to see marriage as a commitment but a burden 
Do not blame the child that does not know how to love and miss anyone
Do not blame the child that shouts and nag at any guy that comes her way
Do not blame the child that refused to trust any one
Do not blame the child that refused to stay with one lady
Do not blame the child that do not see his/her mother in law as their own mother OR his/her father in law as their own father
Do not blame the child that became heartless 
Do not blame the child that became selfish 
Do not blame the child that disrespect everyone 
Do not blame the child that lack proper understanding about vital things 
Do not blame the child that does not want to go home after every closing time/session break
Do not blame the child that sees divorce as an option 
Do not blame the child that followed the wrong direction in life. 
Do not blame the child that cry always 
Do not blame the child that is too strong 
Do not blame the child that hate his/her mother
Do not blame the child that is determined to be independent 
Do not blame the child that lacks forgiveness 
Do not blame the child that plan to stay single 
Do not blame the child that refused to get married 
Do not blame the child that is too secretive 
Do not blame the child that does not need a relationship
Do not blame the child that keep running from one debt to another
Do not blame the child that keeps falling again and again 
Do not blame the child that got addicted to failure 
Do not blame the child that refused to hearken to his father's voice but can listen to a stranger 
Do not blame the disobedient child
Do not blame the child that ran from his/her own wedding 
Do not blame the unmatured child
Do not blame the know it all child
Do not blame the child that choose death over life... 

Hmm... Who then do we blame? 
Stay with me... Part two has been posted simultaneously. Make sure you read it. 
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