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ADURAGBEMI


 *PART THIRTY NINE*

Adura returned back to school and she missed Pelumi so much but life had to go on. Getting to 300l, she was elected as the General secretary of the church. She prayed to God to reveal more of her duties and strengthen her. She informed Pastor Jimi and Pelumi about it, they were so proud of her. They advised and prayed for her.

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Pelumi, on the other side was also representing Christ. She became the President of the organization known as "THE WOMEN OF FAITH", using her experience to build up ladies who has given up on faith. She also became the manger of Sterling Bank after series of interviews and examination. Few months later, she did her introduction with Pastor Jimi (the husband). Adura could not attend the ceremony because of school. So, they decided to fix their wedding after her exams so that she could attend. Adura didn't know if she was unhappy or jealous, but she felt unpleasant.

At 400l, the responsibility became much as she was ordained as the pastor of the fellowship. Though, she had seen it coming and she prayed to God to strengthen her. Her last year, was the toughest year for her. It was as if, she won't be able to graduate that year because of school fee but thank God, he raised helpers for her. 

Also, some wicked lecturer wanted to frustrate her, because she didn't agree to their love proposal. They were angry and decided not to give her expected scores but, she placed them before God. He turned their wickedness into favor for her and she graduated as the best students of the year. The church also celebrated her and she received a lot of gifts, books and prayers

"I have known you to be a great one" Pelumi said on her graduation ceremony. She was called to give the speech on behalf of the students and she dedicated her success and victory to God. Her mother was so happy with the good news she brought to the family. Everyone were all present, including bro Matthew at the graduation ceremony and she was so happy to see them all.

"What is the next thing now" mother asked as they got home

"Mummy, I am confused now and I sincerely need to pray to God for His help" she said

"Okay, I pray God help you" mother said 

"Amen" she said and they wished each other good night. While she was praying, God revealed some steps for her to work with and she did so.


After a year of submitting her C.V (Curriculum Vitae) and interviews to different places. She got a call from a multi national company asking her to take the position of the Counsellor. She felt reluctant, and wanted to dismiss the offer, but God asked her to take up the task.

It is a company owned by the black(Nigeria) and white(Americans). She informed Pelumi and pastor Jimi about it as they were happy.

On the first day of resumption at work, she prayed to God to help her as she stepped out of the house. She came back late in the evening, as the office bus dropped her.

"How was work today? Mother asked

"It was fine. Mummy, God really favoured me. I was loved by everyone there" she said

"Did anyone come for counselling" mother asked

"No mummy but I realized something, when I was asked to follow them to the board meeting. My job is more of giving ideas, solution and then following the lead. I am standing as an advocate of the company. I also heard a lot of people were sacked, because they couldn't help the company progress. The progress of the company, lies in the decision I make. So, only God can help me out" she said

"My God will continue to help you" mother prayed

"Amen. Mummy anything to eat, I am hungry. I couldn't eat today at work because there was no chance. From one meeting to another, with biscuits and tea to eat but who that one help" she said as her mother laughed

"I trust you, you will soon get used to it but I have something important to discuss with you" mother said

"What is that? She asked


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 *PART FORTY*

"Adura! You are 28years old, next year you will be 29 years old and you haven't introduced anyone to me. It really bothers me"Mother said

" Hmmm..Mummy, no man has ever asked me for a relationship. I sincerely don't know, what is wrong with me. I have a lot of male friends (Believers), but none of them is showing green light and I can't force myself on anybody. I have cried and prayed to God to forgive me, maybe the fault is from me. Still no response, so i am waiting and trusting God for the right time. Let's wait till God's time mummy" she said

"What of Tope, bro Matthew? Mother asked

"They are fine. Myself and bro tope is now very close, he will soon call me tonight and bro Matthew, we just use to discuss once in a while" she said

"Are they not showing any signal? Mother asked

"Not really but I suspect bro Matthew. I believe when it's time, the right person will come" she said

"You can also look around you, if there's anything in your life stopping them from coming. You might not know, just sit down and think about it. Also, keep praying" mother said

"Alright ma. Thank you ma" she said and yawned

"Go and freshen up. Then, come and eat"mother said and she stood up

Months later, she attended the naming ceremony of the Jimi's family. When she got back home, she cried out and said to herself "I am stale, that's why nobody wants me. Why isn't anyone interested in me? Even bro Matthew that I taught will marry me, just gave me his invitation card. He is getting married to Darasimi.

Why is my own different? Or is this a generational curse? Lord Jesus, I am tired. Help me lord" 

Her mother who stood behind the door, said to her "No, you are not stale and neither is it a generational curse. Just because you friend is married, and have given birth doesn't mean you won't have yours. Don't be anxious and lean not on your own understanding but trust God. God's plan for you is always the best. Wait for it and embrace it"

"Mummy but why isn't anyone saying something to me. Not even I love you. Mummy, I am beautiful, spiritual and intelligent. What more?? She said as she was crying

"Adura, you don't know what God is seeing about you. What you are seeing now, might be different from how God sees you. I know I caused this, by asking you but let God keep building you for the person and keep trusting God" mother said

"Alright ma" she said and wiped her tears.

Don't be anxious, wait and trust God


Working in the company, has really changed some attitudes about her and she did not stop learning everyday. She became less worried, about marriage and submit everything in God's hands...

One day after work, she came home and meeting bro tope waiting for her...

"Bro tope...Good evening, how are you doing sir? She greeted him

"Welcome Adura, I know I didn't inform you I was coming but here I am" he said and smiled..

"No problem. How was the weather over there in Canada? I hope everything is fine? She asked

"Yes, all fine. I just came back and I haven't gotten home yet. I have to see you" he said.

"Okay, now I am getting scared. I hope I am safe? She said and they smiled

"O yes, you are" he said and they both laughed

"Okay, here I am" she said

"Adura, will you marry me? He said as he knelt down. Mummy, Pelumi and her husband, came out

She was surprised and said "bro tope, can you give me some times to think about it" 

"Okay" he said as everyone looked at her and she ran inside her room. Truly, she loves tope and want to get married but, she needed to be sure and know, if she was ready for the journey. Some days later, she accept his proposal. They got married that same year and she also got an international promotion from her job. That made her and husband stay in Canada as they both work there. They got a visa for her mother, who later came to join them.

JESUS is the way, truth and life (John 14:6). It is not enough to accept him, you must also trust, obey and believe in him. Only in Christ, can we overcome and be a survivor. As a believer facing through affliction, hardship, etc. (John 16:33) In Christ, you have peace and be of good cheer, He has overcome the world. (1peter 2:24b) by his stripes, ye were healed.

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