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THORIA'S DIARY


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 *MORAYO'S STORY*

I used to think it's only the inner me that matters. Follow me as I share my story" Morayo said

"Why do people think I am like the others ladies or is there's something I am not doing right? Morayo said as she looked at herself. Fortunately, her friend was around waiting for her in the room.

"Bola, what's up...please I don't know what is going on o? I have been accused wrongly today" Morayo said as she sat down and faced Bola.

"Why won't you. I mean you should be accused wrongly. Imagine how you are dressed" Bola said as she looked at her.

"What are you even saying? Can't I dress again? At least, I am dressing for myself and I don't care who is looking at me. 

Moreover, dressing is a choice and I should not be enforced on how to dress. The society should brush up and stop dictating how to dress for us and it doesn't mean we should be tagged as runs girls. I dress in the way I like. I dress to make myself happy" Morayo said angrily

"You are still speaking English. Are you not the one that just complained about how you are being addressed by some guys few minutes ago and now, you are saying something else.

Tell me, why you won't be looked in that way. Those guys were moved by what they saw and not the real you Morayo. If you want to change the way people address or see you. You have to change how you dress. It's the outer you, they will encounter before meeting the inner you and I know you have a good heart but just work on your dressing" Bola said

"Hmmm...but the bible says God doesn't look at the physical appearance but the intent of the heart. So, why should I be addressed by my dress. I mean it's not making sense" Morayo said

"The same bible that says " Your body is the temple of God. So, you have to keep yourself for God and your husband. Your body is not a public show, it's private" Bola said.

Dear sisters,
There's no beauty in exposing your body. You can cover up and still look gorgeous.

Don't have the I don't care attitude and thinking everyone should not address you by your dressing. If you have a nice heart but you don't dress well, nobody will notice your nice heart because the first thing they came across when they see you, is your dressing. 

Sisters, don't be loose.
Tighten up.
Even those guys that are approaching you when everything is open, will later get married to a lady that knows how to cover up.

Dress beautiful
Dress covered
Your body is not for sale
Let your dressing bring honor to you.
Let your dressing connect you with responsible people
Let your dressing speak of you and your heavenly father.

I pray God help us in Jesus name...Amen!

 *Alokan Temilade Victoria* 
 

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