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PRESENTATION


How presentable are you? 

On a Saturday, I was standing and waiting for a car to take me to my location. I stood at the junction for few minutes and after a while, I waved my hand to a car but I looked away since it didn't stop.

Suddenly, I heard a man saying "Aunty Motor yen ti duro fun yin now (meaning Aunty, the car has stopped for you)" and I walked towards the car.

I greeted the man as I sat down in the front seat and fixed the seat belt. After a while, we engaged in some little discussion that seemed funny and later I realized he just wanted to help me. At the point, I was thinking about many things. I even thought of getting down maybe he is a ritualist because I don't understand why you will say you just want to help me but I didn't do all of that because we have gone too far and I started praying.

We were both silent till we got to half of the journey when he asked "Did you know the reason why I stopped for you?

I said "No"

He said "You are decently dressed unlike those girls that open their cleavage and reveal their part of their body to the world"

I smiled and said "That's their own definition of fashion, which is not right"

Then he said "Keep it up". It was at the point, I felt relived and not anxious. Apart from him assisting me because I was going the same way with him but also because I was properly dressed. He is a Muslim and a married man. He dropped me at my destination and he didn't request for anything more.

Getting to where I was going, I realized how you present yourself also attract favor from Men.

How presentable are you dear sisters?

The man said, he has seen many people he should have helped but they were not presentable.

How presentable are you? 

I look at some sisters who says "I dress for myself and not to please anyone" How can you utter such statement? That means you don't care how many people are lured by your dressing. In as much as you dress for yourself, you are also showing yourself to the people because, you won't be the one to look at yourself alone. Others will.

So, ladies let's adjust in our dressing sense. Enough of color rainbow dressing.
Enough of showing of cleavages
Enough of wearing undersized and oversized dresses.

If you don't know how to combine colours. You can check online. There's a lot attached to dressing. I could be dressing well and don't know about color combination. These are some of the important things in dressing.

Most important thing is always wear your confidence. Be presentable and be confident in what you wear.

The picture below was how I was dressed up😊

God bless us!

 *Alokan Temilade Victoria* 
 *Light Lamp*
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