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ADVICE TO MY DEAR SISTER 16


"Fine babe...  Where are you going too? Pemisire asked as she shifted her attention to Tomoke 

"Ahn Ahn...what kind of question is that? Didn't I tell you I was going out with Tomiwa? Tomoke said as she adjusted her clothes

"Ooh...I forgot, it's well o. Some many things to think of, I am so sorry. Just take care of yourself" Pemisire said

"No problem, thank you" Tomoke said as she adjusted her dress and left the house.

"God please help your daughter" Pemisire said as she concentrated on the book she was reading .

 *FEW WEEKS LATER* 

Pemisire walked inside the house and found Tomoke crying, looking worried

"Tomo (the short name, she calls her)...what's going on here? Why are you crying? Pemisire asked as she dropped her bag and moved closer to her

"Ooh...I was just thinking about my life" Tomoke said

"Okay....what about your life? Pemisire asked, looking confused

"Don't worry, it's nothing serious" Tomoke said as she wiped her tears.

"O....Kay" Pemisire said and picked up her bag and went inside the room. After an hour, she came out and saw her weeping

"Tomoke, it is better you speak out now. Enough of the pretense, what's going on? Pemisire asked and she moved closer

"It's peter..." Tomoke said as she was crying

"What about peter? I thought you guys are not together anymore! Pemisire asked looking surprised

"Yes...but all my plans seems abortive. I am confused. My life isn't balanced anymore" Tomoke said

"Why?....Wait I hope it's not the plans I asked you to stop? Pemisire asked

"It...I..s" Tomoke answered sluggishly

"But why ehn? Pemisire asked

"Pemisire, it's not easy at all. Seeing him enjoying his life after the break up, while I am nursing the wound. All I just wanted to do, is to pepper him. I just wanted to do shakara and make him want to beg me back. I wanted to show " Tomoke said angrily

"You see, I understand you perfectly but your approach was wrong and can you see the rewards now? Pemisire asked her as she was crying

My dear sister,
I know when the heart hurts, we can do anything out of pain to revenge

Some, have lost the mantle on the platform of Heartbreak.

Some, out of revenge to hurt the person that hurt them. End up of ruining their spiritual lives.

Beloved sisters,
Brother Peter, might leave you for Sis ope,  accepted but that doesn't mean you should go extraordinary out of your way just to pepper him. 

By dressing more than you used to do, clubbing, night parties, wearing revealing dressings, just for him to see that you have upgraded. Forgetting, that doesn't mean he will get back to you. Sometimes, he might begin to wonder where the You went.

And when you can't get what you want. Depression, pains, tears, etc set in. For some, they will begin to think of how stupid they are but for some, they won't be able to go back to who they are. So, they continue in such habit.

Sisters,
Whatever will be for you, won't climb the fence. Stay away from vengeance.

Whatever might have happened, learn from it and be grateful. Trust and depend on God to lead you right.

Stop taking revenge at hands, it will destabilize you and sometimes, you might have gone too far, to return home. Stay away from it!

God help us all in Jesus name...Amen!!!


 *#Light Lamp#* 
 *Alokan Temilade Victoria*
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