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ADVISE TO MY DEAR SISTER 18


"Gloria....This guy is just looking fresh everyday with cute pictures. Let me whine him to send me money" Kiki giggle as she was scrolling through her phone but Gloria didn't answer her.

"Oh Jesus...I can believe this is Peju. Wow, she looks so different now. This can only be the work of money. Owo ti de (Money has arrived). Let me tell her to send something to me as her friend" Kiki said again and this time, Gloria reacted

"Kiki, what is wrong with you? Must you always be like this? You don't even know how the welfare of the person is, all you think about is money because of the flamboyant things or pictures you see. That means you can do the same to me" Gloria said angrily

"Please, is that not the truth? Come and see this picture, you will know it's true. Money is the only thing that can make someone as fresh as this. Take a look now" Kiki said showing her the picture.

"Kiki, you are unbelievable. If I didn't know you, I will say something is wrong with you. Not everything that appears glamorous is glamorous. Haven't you heard that all that glitters is not gold. Your mentality need to be touched. I am sorry if you feel attacked but it's not right" Gloria said and Kiki felt attacked.

"Gloria, sorry but have you been in such situation? Because you speak like someone who has an experience" Kiki said as she looks confused

"Whatever is not right, has to be said" Gloria said

My dear sisters,
Don't be gullible. Don't keep asking for money because the person is looking fresh and glamorous.

Some are going through a lot even with what you see. For some, it can be one of their old pictures that they wish to upload again. And for some, they just looking fresh and within them, they wish someone can assist them too

Don't pressurize people to send money or anything to you. It might make them run away from you and stop replying or answering your call.

Don't even think that you are asking them joking because if at all they send the money to you, you will receive it and won't send it back to them.

Put yourself in their position. If you are the one, what will you do?

Let giving be doing willing and not under pressure.

Don't be the reason why someone is having sleepless night, thinking of how to send the money you requested. No everyone has the boldness to say No. So, don't pressurize.

Don't be the reason why someone stopped picking up your calls and running away from you.

Please, let's be guided and don't be seen as a beggar.

God help us in Jesus name.... Amen

I love you!!!

 *Alokan Temilade Victoria*
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