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THORIA'S DIARY


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 *CECILIA'S STORY*

I met Gbolahan at the top business conference I attended. It is a conference that takes place twice in a year for every workers in the organization.  

Though, that wasn't the first of seeing him but that very day, we had a little chat while the conference was going on and he seems so intelligent and responsible.

After the conference, he requested for my number which I could not ignore because he is such a loveable and intelligent person...smiles. I thought he would be like the other guys who disturbs young ladies with their calls and messages. He seems different but only in some aspect.

Gbolahan is a Christian and he is very deep in the word and prayers but still, something was missing. The first chat I had with him was unusual. I felt I was in an interview session as he was asking several questions about myself, spiritual life, etc.

Gradually, our chat became so intense as he asked questions about the word of God and relationship. I felt I was in a discussion with my spiritual father as the questions appeared so deep. When it got to a point, I couldn't take it anymore and I asked what he wanted but he kept saying he wanted to know me more.

Few weeks of knowing me more, he finally released the reason why he has been asking so much questions from me... He asked me for a relationship. I was surprised and speechless. I couldn't believe I was asked so much questions because of a relationship.

I decided to ask my friend who works in the same company with him to tell me things about him. I was very careful and I didn't want to rush into any relationship became he is an attractive guy.

Hmmm, thank God I asked questions. It was then I got to realize Gbolahan is truly a lover of God but still lack direction. She said he has done that to several ladies and everyone in the office already know him for that.

He truly wanted a relationship but he lacked the application of approach. He speaks to every lady he met, take them out, pay their bills, buy them things and ask several questions. I thank God I asked questions and I  didn't fall a victim.

My dear sister, I believe we've learnt from Cecilia's story.

Don't be in a haste to answer a guy because he is intelligent, smart, spiritual and so on, without asking questions about him. Try and know the opinion of people around him. Especially those who have known him for a long time.

It's very important to ask questions. Don't assume the guy is good because of the things you are seeing now...

I pray God help us in Jesus name...  Amen! 

 *Alokan Temilade Victoria*
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