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MY STRUGGLE


*HOW DO YOU DO IT?*

Tell me how do you do it?
How do you stay happy even in the midst of it all?
Tell me how to respect someone
who doesn't deserve my respect.
Tell me how to trust someone
who betrayed me so badly.

Tell me how to care for someone
who never cared about me.
Tell me how to speak nicely to someone
who only spoke down to me with bad words.
Tell me how to get along with someone
who brought me nothing but endless tears.
Tell me how to get close to someone
who caused me so much pain.

Tell me how to forgive someone
who hurt me so severely.
Tell me how to open my heart to someone
who broke it to pieces too many times
Tell me how to deal with pressure 
From everything
Teach me how to stay happy
How do I so hopeful in
This hopeless situation" Boriola said as she cried

Dear sisters,
Nobody can teach you how to stay happy or overcome hard situations. 
They can only tell you how to deal with it and
Not to affect your day to day activities.

You can't fully depend on Men
Only God can help you regain everything that seems lost but,
You have to be ready to devote yourself and time.
The world is full of many challenges but,
In His word, there is Peace
Stay with Him and journey with Him.
In His presence, there is fullness of joy.

Don't give up yet!

*Alokan Temilade Victoria*
*Light Lamp*
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