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MY STRUGGLE


*WHAT ABOUT ME?*

My brother gets all the love
And support he needs
He has always been first
In your mind and heart
My Sister gets anything
She wants even when she
Doesn't deserve it at all
Because she's the baby
But what about me?

I'm the one you can
Count on to watch them when
You go somewhere
I'm the one that is the
Last person to know
What's going on in the house and
The last one you consider
What If I want to go
With you when you go 
Why don't I get the same
Kind of love and support
That they get, aren't I important as they are?
What about me?

Don't I deserve the same
Kind of love and support
Am I not your daughter
Don't I deserve the same
As your other daughter
Or your son
Or aren't you my parents?
If I try to tell you how
I feel you get angry and
Upset that I feel this way
Why can't you understand?
I can't understand why
My feelings make you
Angry and why I am the
One that always gets left behind
Have you ever thought,
What about me?

Why don't you take me
With you or plan things
So that I can go with you
Or be more involved in your life
It's like you don't know me
Or even care to know me
So I guess I'll just leave
You all alone
Don't call me if you want
Someone to watch the animals
Or the kids until you include me
Because I want to be included in everything 
I am no longer the watcher
I guess I will make it by myself
Until I feel I am accepted by the
Family I was born into
Until then, I stand alone

Dear Sisters/Mother's
A lot of children feel abandoned even while living with their family. They don't get the same love shown to the others.

Children are very sensitive and inquisitive. The moment they notice anything or feel lonely they begin to have different words flowing in their thoughts. This has made a lot of children, stand and do things alone because they don't get the attention they deserve. 

They feel their parents love others than them. Some might not speak out immediately till later in the future but parents let's pay attention to our children and give equally support without having to love one than the other.

I pray God help us...Amen!

*Alokan Temilade Victoria*
*Light Lamp*
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