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DON'T COVER IT



"Have you ever find yourself not enough?
Have you ever found yourself not good enough?
Have you ever found yourself in a tight corner and all you want is space?
Have you ever found yourself regretting so many things?
Like Oza, all I want is to be left alone,
I don't even understand how I'm feeling " Ifeoma said

"Ify, why am I getting this feeling that all these, is because of Chinedu
What has he done this time or said to you? Oza asked

"Why are you always quick to judge?
Did I mention anyone name to you?
I don't like this and you need to stop " Ify said angrily

"Be deceiving yourself,
You can deceive everyone but you can't deceive me,
This is not the first time of him downgrading you and you are still in the relationship
What happened to keeping your mental health stable?
You are here brooding over someone who is probably enjoying the best moment of his life.
Why exactly is the reason you are still in this relationship? Oza asked

"Oza it's not as you think,
He only talks anyhow whenever he is angry,
You know he is not that kind of person,
Have you forgotten he is spiritual and he has helped me in my spiritual growth
I only think it's his weakness and I should stand by him" Ifeoma said

"His weakness, you said,
Does this person even recognize his weakness?
He doesn't see it as something bad Ify
You have spoken to him, prayed about it yet,
He still hasn't changed and that's because he doesn't even sees anything bad at what he is doing
The last time you said he was correcting you,
Now you are saying he was angry
Hmmm...I hope you can even hear yourself out
At this point, it's you that need help" Oza said

"Really Oza, you know men react differently
He will still come back to beg,
I know how to deal with him but,
Don't tell me to leave him alone" Ifeoma said

"Hmmm, I hope you don't realize it late,
It's sweeting you now,
He finds pleasure demoralizing you
Don't he get angry at other ladies and don't you see how he react
Why must the reaction be different toward someone he claims to be courting
I hope you don't realize this too late" Oza said and left Ifeoma speechless

Ladies, don't entertain what you can't accept or control during marriage at a courtship stage
If you have spoken to the mentor, pastor, etc. 
No changes and he isn't even recognizing what he is doing as a bad thing
How do you want to change such man?
I hope God grant us the wisdom, knowledge and understanding needed in your relationship


*Alokan Temilade Victoria*
*Light Lamp*
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