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CAN YOU STOP IT?


"Tomike really, can you stop all these drama,
Are you out of your sense?
I can't believe this is coming from you,
How can you belittle yourself this much,
Over what?" Ifeoma said furiously

"You are beginning to annoy me,
Is it because I told you,
I knew it,  I could have just kept it to myself and 
I'm not complaining, how is it your headache? Tomike said

"Oh you think I will just watch you ruin your emotions like that,
Over my dead body
You know what you need to come back to your senses
Can't you see this is a one sided love?
How can you be in a relationship so glaring that you do more than you receive
Is this how desperate you are Tomi?" ifeoma asked

"I don't expect you to understand,
You are married and heavily pregnant,
Look at me Ify (short form of ifeoma),
I'm 31 years old and the one relationship that seems to last,
You want me to give up on it, never" Tomike said as she was teary

"Really Tomi? Look at you, 
You look unhappy, 
Do you want to end up living like a slave in your own marriage
Have you given up on God?
This isn't the right person for you,
Don't be too desperate babe" Ifeoma said as she pulled her close

"I guess he will change along the line,
All the days of my life I have lived right but I can't just get this aspect of my life right,.
I feel so unlucky and I'm ready to flow with anything now,
I just need a crown" Tomike said crying

"Don't be too desperate to wear the wrong crown,
This is not the best God has for you,
I know it seems long but God truly has the best for you.
I know you are ageing but God still has the best plans for you
You can't be managing a relationship,
You will end up loosing yourself when you get married.
It seems far but it's closer than you ever thought,
Keep praying and believing!
It will be the best so far" Ifeoma said and comforted her

*Alokan Temilade Victoria*
*Light Lamp*

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