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DECEIT



"How do I explain this pain me,
Everytime I try to rise, I fall
Why do they keep deceiving me?
Why are they playing with my heart? Flora said as she was in tears

"Flora, what's happening? 
Speak out to us,
We share our life experiences here,
You never can know who has passed through your situation" Claira said

"It was a deep situation,
He even said I was the will of God for him,
Yet he got married to someone else,
After 5 good years of my life
When did I stop being the will of God for him,
There's nothing I haven't thought about,
This same guy deceived me to fulfil his pleasures,
After all these, I was still dump
I'm done with this so called relationship
They are all deceit" Flora concluded

"Fear those spiritual brothers, not to talk about Men generally" Bimbo shouted from behind

Hmmm...

I know some ladies, have seen shege from Men,
Believer/unbeliever
Some are still trying to cover up every sin because they love Him and respect Him but,
Should you continue to abide in sin and loose your peace?

Don't be cajoled and don't be deceived
There are still true Men out there
Yes, you might have been through hell in the hands of men but, let that not make you conclude on Love or Men
Make your experience a lesson and ensure you don't walk through that path

Most time, we get too carried away by the signs or probably you just choose to ignore and stay because you love Him but the truth is,
That's not how to keep a man
Don't say he is my fellow brother in Christ and he is without any fault 
"Whatever that belongs to you won't pass through the fence" I say this to myself when I had  a bad experience.

So, don't conclude on Love and ensure you correct every vain words you receive,
Don't entertain it, that's one of the way to also help yourself
You know that guy is whining you and you don't love him,
Don't let loneliness push you to play along and you also get heartbroken along the way.

Also, you need to give yourself time to heal from the past,
Don't rush yourself,
Take time to build yourself all round and always pray to God to lead you right

*What seems right might not be the wrong way*

Alokan Temilade Victoria
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