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THORIA'S DIARY

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 *BAMITELE'S STORY*


Sometimes, I want to pull out but I find myself go back into that mess. 


Yes, I know he doesn't worth it but He still finds a way of compensating me after everything and I guess that is one of the reasons why I love him. He understands me and know what I want.


He attends to all of my needs. Through him, I am able to pay for some of my needs. My parents pocket money is not enough to sponsor all I need. So he is just like a back up to all I need and he has always being there.


I know he has some irrational  attitude but he still comes back to beg me after everything. Just because he beat me in front of my friends, which he later apologized. My friends advised me to break up with him because the beatings are getting too much. They said there is no future with him but I have been with for four years now and I am enduring it. I benefit a lot from him and he loves and takes care of me. It's just an angry issue and we will work on it together.


Though my opinion doesn't count in the relationship but we love each other. He takes care of everything I want. Is that not enough reasons for me to stay with him.


My friends and neighbours thinks I am depreciating myself but one thing they don't understand is love covers it all. At least, I don't have to call my parents every time.


Why can't they be happy for me?


BAMITELE....


Hmmm...it's so amazing how some ladies undergo and endure some of the beatings and slaps they can't get from their parents in the hands of a guy. All because of what they get from it.


Don't be deceived...the reason why many ladies stay in a toxic relationship is because of what they get and not mostly love.


Most ladies can stay in a toxic relationship for many years but can't endure ordinary slap from their parents. They can shout and walk out of their parents but can't do that to their so called Boyfriend..


Hmmmmmm...


Dear sisters, don't depreciate yourself and values because of the things you are getting. 


Don't stay in a toxic relationship because of the flashy things you are earning.


Yes, I know He spends on you and so because of that you endure all the beatings and slaps. It shows you are like a price tag and can be detached anytime.


Don't stay in a relationship that hide, kill and steal your voice, soul, body, spirit and values.


It shows the guy has no respect for you and He knows whatever happens you can't leave him because of what you are getting. Instead, he will be the one to leave you...


Come out of such relationship, don't be gullible. 


I pray God help you to make wise decision...Amen


I care about you and I love you! 


 *Alokan Temilade Victoria*

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