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THE JOURNEY OF LIFE


 *MR AND MRS ALABI FAMILY* 


 *Episode 1* 


If you find yourself in any part of the story. Know it's for a purpose. God bless you


"Wait, you think life is difficult, partial or you feel you are the only one facing mostly hardship, challenges, etc.


No, you are not, and there is surely a way out. Let me share with you all a life experience Miss Bosede said.


Tolani was born on the 21st of October, 1998 into the family of Mr and Mrs Alabi. She was born into a Christian home. Tolani is the 2nd born out of four but mostly, she plays the role of the first born because of how her parent regarded her.


She was 10 years old when she began to have issues with life. She grew up in a family where her parent had limited time for them, most especially her father. Her grandma and house help are always available to help mostly during the weeks. 


Mummy comes back late in the evening from work but still find her way to check their assignment if its done. Apart from the assignment, there were many things Tolani wanted to discuss with mum but there was no time.


She pen down everything bothering her into a book and she has a Teddy bear, she called her "listening partner" since she never had one.


Tolani had little relationship with her siblings:- David [the first child], Ibukun [the third child] and Oyinda [the last born]. She had gotten used to herself being alone. She was a girl with little words but her siblings failed to understand. 


They thought she was too gentle and playing with her had a limit. So, they were always been careful around her. Tolani tried her best to be jovial but it was not working. She tried to express herself severally, but she kept struggling.


She had gotten used to writing down how she feels and she could not tell anyone, nobody even noticed. Even her mum did not because they all concluded that was her personality. That was how she developed low self-esteem but Tolani did not know, she also thought it was her personality.


"Did it just end there, how could she think low self-esteem was her personality" One of Miss Bosede student asked.


You won't know, until you know Miss Bosede replied


Episode two will be posted tomorrow @ 9:00am


 *Stay with me as we journey together.....* 



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