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WHAT DO YOU SEE

They were times in my life. It was really a dark moment for me. Everything in my life, seems blank and I was in a confused state.


I was tired and angry at myself but nothing changed. I thought, I was mistake because I was surrounded by cloud of struggles. 


I experienced heartbreaks that made me strong.

I faced lots of challenges that made me strong.


I was leaving someone else's life because I was always dancing to the tune of people yet, I was a Christian. I was a Christian with little knowledge. 


One day, I checked through my life and I asked myself what do I see? And I realized all I saw was resentment, revenge, hatred, pains, fear, addiction and struggles. I couldn't find anything positive about me and I thought that's how it was going to be.


I started crying and I said in tears "Lord, I want to give my all to you. Help me to find me even in the midst of struggles. Help me identify who you created me to be"


I couldn't say much as I started crying. I felt I was going to break down. All I saw was struggles and what I was still going to face...


I started studying the word (Bible), listen to edifying messages, reading books and thanks to God, I was able to get a positive mindset about myself.


Hmmm....What do you see?


I know I haven't gotten there yet but I know i am not who/what I used to be.


Dear sisters,

Don't be blindfolded by the things going on around you. 

Don't be blindfolded by those struggles

Don't be carried away by that challenge

Don't be blindfolded by those pains

Don't be carried away by those tears.


You can be more than that...


Even Jesus passed through some challenges while He was on earth.


It might seems like all you see is nothing but i tell you there is a lot in You. 


You need to work on your mindset. Give yourself to the word (Bible). Study it.


It's more reason why the book of Joshua 1:8 says "This book of the law shall not depart from your mouth but you shall meditate on it day and night. So that you may be careful to do according to all that is written in it. For then you will make your way prosperous and then you will have good success"


Sisters, nobody prayers to remain where she is. Everybody want to move forward but it depends on what you see? Where you see yourself? How you see yourself behaving and so on. I know even within those challenge, you desire breakthrough...


I want you to set your mind positively. So, that even in the midst of storm and dark moments, you will see yourself coming out of it victorious.


If you don't see right / set your mind right. You will surely become a victim to what you see and what you think.


Dear sisters,

If you think the burden is too much on you. Call on God, He is our ever present help and His arms are wide open to receive you. No matter how ugly or dirty your sins are, He is ready to wash you clean. Confess to Him, invite Him into your heart and make Him your Lord.


God loves you and He want to see you doing well.


I Temilade Alokan loves you and I want to see you doing well. I also believe I have people who loves me and want to see me doing well


God bless you!


 *Alokan Temilade Victoria*

 *Light lamp*

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